2012 a New Begining

Posted on December 20, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

Whatever life has dealt you over the years, 2012 can be a year of change for you.  Let it start with love! Love for God, humanity, your neighbor, your family and friends and of course love for yourself.

Faith, hope and love are important concepts in the Bible, but I believe that love is the greatest sensation of all. And, I believe that 2012 is the year in which love will conquer all. God has given us the ability and capacity to love those around us, even when we do not wish to do so.  It is through this incredible gift that you and I can and will together make a difference in this world.

I stand before you a testament of three of the greatest forms of love known to humanity.

First and foremost is my love for God.  He has tested and delivered me into His love for all His children and I could not be happier with this revelation.

Second is the love for His children. This was certainly more of a challenge for me since I have spent the past 20 plus years as a senior fraud investigator. I feel that I’ve seen it all as to greed and crimes against humanity.

Third is the experience of unconditional love for another person whose path and life is the same as mine with Christ.  Once you have experienced this, it is impossible to turn your head away from it. YOU MUST move forward and accept the gifts that are being delivered to you.

My question to you is this:  Where are you today with your peace of mind, your state of happiness and your belief system?

Are you 10 percent out of 100 percent? Seventy percent out of 100 percent? Where are you and what is keeping you from reaching that 100 percent mark?  Please remember that the only person to walk this Earth at 100 percent happiness and belief in a God unseen was Christ himself! Rest easy that you will NEVER reach 100 percent and you’re not supposed to. Just knowing that Christ was able is enough. Let’s shoot for 85 percent or even 90 percent, or, let’s just be aware of ourselves in each moment, for better or worse, grateful to have had a leader such as Christ to set the bar at 100 percent and give us something for which to strive, a purpose to keep doing the best we can with the life each of us are given.

As we enter into this era of change, the year in which millions will find their path in life, Robin and I would like to extend to you an invitation to join us in a universal celebration of unconditional love.

It is God’s desire for all His children to unite as one family and this year certainly can be a beautiful start for us all in unity and humanity.

So my message to you this incredible last day of December 2011 is simply this:  Let 2012 be the year of your rebirth with God, with love and with the promise of eternal life that we have through Him.

May God Bless you with the abundance He has promised.

Walking in His Grace, Wayne

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Love & Expectations

Posted on December 9, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

FROM FEELINGS OF LOVE TO ANGER IN 3.2 SECONDS…WHAT WENT WRONG?
by Wayne Warrington

It is amazing to me that people can move from an emotional state of love to anger, or even hate, in what appears to be a blink of the eye.

Most of us have experienced this in our life, being either the one shaking their head as to “what just happened?” or the one sitting back with feelings of betrayal or disappointment as to expectations not being met.

I have witnessed this relationship process first hand, as well as having many friends describe to me the 180 degree turn their partner in life has made when it comes to their interaction and feelings towards them.  This same roller coaster affect also happens in virtually all forms of relationships, whether in business, family or friendship.

It all comes down to expectations!  When the expectations of two people in a close relationship do not match, the partnership path splits. Then comes our reaction to the divergent paths.  How do we treat the person who is taking their own road and not living up to our expectation?  Do we treat them with love and compassion?  Do we see them as human and subject to error and mistake making? Do we think forgiveness is out of the question? Or, do we jump to the conclusion that this person did something on purpose to harm us and therefore we should do the same to them.

As for myself, I have been in several very close personal relationships in my lifetime.  Being in my 50s, this is not uncommon in today’s world.  When people ask me about my former spouse, or relationships, sometimes they are surprised that I continue to sing their praises and mention that I continue to have love and respect for them. How is this possible to still love or respect someone that you are no longer in a close relationship with? Here is my answer: “My love for them has not changed, but the dynamics of our relationship are different now than they once were.”

I also believe that part of the success known as “happiness” we experience in life comes from our ability to learn and grow to a point of understanding what unconditional love really means.  Unconditional love, when you open your heart to someone, is when no matter what happens in the future, your love for that person will always be there, even though the dynamics of the relationship may have changed and you may no longer be in close personal contact with the person.

How is it that I can love everyone that I meet?  It comes from my faith and the fact that it is one of the two fundamental rules of life:  Loving God first and then loving His children.  When someone tells me it is not realistic to love everyone, I remind them that I can love someone while at the same time I do not have to like them or allow them to be an active part of my life.

This goes for virtually anyone we know, including family and those who we at one time considered to be a very close friend or even life partner.  When someone in our life becomes disruptive or so negative that we are taken off our path, or pulled away from our purpose in life, it may be necessary for us to limit the interaction. This does not mean we can no longer love them, it simply means we understand the relationship as it stands is not healthy for us.

Our peace and happiness in life is supported by relationships that foster positive interactions.  So basically we have to chose wisely the people with whom we surround ourselves with.

The final part of this relationship equation is this.  If you are the type of person who reacts to a change in status of a relationship with the understanding that “Your love for them has not changed, but the dynamics of your relationship are different now than they once were.” then please do not spend to much time asking yourself what you did wrong. If you believe that you lived up to your expectations for what the dynamic of the give and take of the relationship required, then you did all you could do. Be honest with yourself, and ask your partner or friend to be honest with you. Then, content in your communication, love will ensue, even if you stop seeing or speaking to one another on a regular basis.

My friends we are here for a purpose, and that purpose includes sharing our hearts and love with those who surround us in thought, word and deed.   Life is easy if you understand the rules of the game and then allow unconditional love to be a part of who you are.

 

 

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Not Much Can Be Added

Posted on December 5, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

From time to time a friend will send me a picture, a link to a story or even a video such as this.  I typically find strength and inspiration from these and will include them in a message that I feel will be enhanced.

Change

The story in this video has one powerful message to share. The only thing that came to mind as I watch the video is…. pass it on.

 

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Political Food For Thought

Posted on December 1, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

Message from my INBOX:

No one has been able to explain why young men and women serve in the U.S. Military for 20 years, risking their lives, protecting freedom, and only get 50% of their pay when they retire. While politicians hold their political positions in the safe confines of the capital, protected by these same men and women, and receive full pay retirement after serving one term. It just does not make any sense.


Monday on Fox news they learned that the staffers of Congress family members are exempt from having to pay back student loans.. This will get national attention if other news networks will broadcast it.. When you add this to the below, just where will all of it stop?

35 States file lawsuit against the Federal Government
Governors of 35 states have filed suit against the Federal Government for imposing unlawful burdens upon them. It only takes 38 (of the 50) States to convene a Constitutional Convention.

This will take less than thirty seconds to read. If you agree, please pass it on.

This is an idea that we should address.

For too long we have been too complacent about the workings of Congress. Many citizens had no idea that members of Congress could retire with the same pay after only one term, that they specifically exempted themselves from many of the laws they have passed (such as being exempt from any fear of prosecution for sexual harassment) while ordinary citizens must live under those laws. The latest is to exempt themselves from the Healthcare Reform… in all of its forms. Somehow, that doesn’t seem logical. We do not have an elite that is above the law. I truly don’t care if they are Democrat, Republican, Independent or whatever. The self-serving must stop.

If each person that receives this will forward it on to 20 people, in three days, most people in The United States of America will have the message.. This is one proposal that really should be passed around.

Proposed 28th Amendment to the United States Constitution

“Congress shall make no law that applies to the citizens of the United States that does not apply equally to the Senators and/or Representatives; and, Congress shall make no law that applies to the Senators and/or Representatives that does not apply equally to the citizens of the United States.”

If you feel as strongly as those that sent this email to me… which I have reposted here… please feel free to pass this LINK along to your family and friends. :

http://waynewarrington.com/?p=413

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Set Yourself Free

Posted on November 20, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

AFFIRMATION:

I Am set free… I release all burdens, doubts and worries.

NARRATION:

So many of us carry burden, doubts and worries with us, it is no wonder we keep attracting them to ourselves. Set yourself free from these burdens.  Most of them were created through our own vain imaginings.  We only have two natural fears; the fear of falling and the fear of loud noises. Where did all the rest of them come from?

Each day we can decide to emancipate ourselves from doubt and worry. Through prayer or meditation, faith, affirmation, visualization and faithful actions we develop confidence and mental freedom.   It is a liberating feeling when we discharge our burdens and doubts. When we cast them off, we return to a natural state of mind.  As a result, we also “clear the channels: for wondrous new revelations, ideas, hopes and dreams. All our old burdens and worries are “unnatural” conditions. They have no place in your mind.

Make an inventory of all the worn out conditions, old burdens, self-doubts and worries in your mind. Write them down on a piece of paper to get them “out of your system.”  Then take a match and burn them. Watch them disappear and your natural self will reappear.

Affirm to yourself,  “Today is a day of completion… I Am set free.” You will be amazed at the results and the manifestations that will materialize soon thereafter.

WISDOM FOR TODAY:

Today is my liberation day. I am emancipated from all doubt, worry, burdens and worn-out conditions. My channels are cleared for my good fortune.

Scripture Reference:

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”
2 Corinthians 3:17.

SPECIAL THANKS:

To John Alexandrov.  Thank you again John for your incredibly inspiring words and your books Affirmations of Wealth and Your Spiritual Gold Mind.  It is such a blessing to be able to call upon these words to help make the changes we need and deserve in our lives.

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Be the Change You Want to See in the World!

Posted on November 14, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

NOTHING BEATS A POSITIVE ATTITUDE!

Every moment of your life, every action or reaction, is an opportunity to be the change you want to see in this world.

Let your love and positive attitude fill the hearts and minds of those around you!

Virtually everyday I read many inspiring comments on Facebook. Then there are those that the writer seems to approach life as … “There is nothing I can do to change things!” A beg to differ! Just as there are billions of drops of water within that still pond, the drop that hits at the right time and place can and will make a change in the surface. So can we, as individuals living out side the box and living in a positive way. Be the change you want to see in the world! Start today!!

AFFIRMATION:

I AM A ROLE MODEL FOR OTHERS.  I share my wisdom and talents so others will do the same. I hold myself out as an example for others to follow.

WISDOM FOR TODAY:

I will display true character today and will reveal my integrity by setting an example for others to follow. I will be a role model for many and a champion to myself.

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To Love is to Forgive!

Posted on November 12, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

To forgive is to experience life the way it is meant to be! Peaceful and happy!

It is interesting how as a society we are expected to forgive others in the course of their rehabilitation for the crimes they have committed.  Yet, we often fall short in forgiving of mistakes made by those we call close friends.

It is also amazing when we can grasp the full extent of God’s love for His children and how He has forgiven us of our sins: past, present and future. Yet what He asks of us in return, to forgive those that have sinned against us, we again fall short even when the sin is by someone we love.

The simplest expression of love, true love, is our demonstration of the act of forgiveness.

I believe if we were to simply step back and reverse the roles we are in, we would find the process of forgiveness a bit easier.   I also believe that by taking a moment to ask ourselves “what else can this mean and not including ourselves in the process” we can find forgiveness to be a beautiful gift that can be shared with others. Such as when the husband comes home from a hard day at work and his wife immediately confronts him as to an errand he forgot to do that day after being reminded several times. It certainly would be easy for the man to place his day, his emotions and stress before asking himself why is my wife so upset over the errand.

The best example I can give relates to a recent situation with someone close to me had their feelings hurt by something they “thought” I did.  Their immediate reaction was to communicate in writing to me how hurt they were, adding a condemning statement about my character and then the closing with …how they never wanted to speak to me again.

As a man of faith, I take my relationships with others… family and friends… very much to heart. And so this person’s communication was devastating to me.  And being only human, the condemning portion added the emotional element of defensiveness as I read the message over and over again.

Before I replied or tried to reach out to this person, I took a MOMENT to ask myself “What else could this mean?”  I then separated myself from the entire communication and looked at what was happening in their life at this time and all of sudden the anger in their letter, the disappointment and condemnation of me for the actions they thought I had done melted away and my heart became heavy for the burden and pain I knew that this person was going through.

At this point I was able to reach out to them with my love and sincere feelings of helping them through their pain and simply ignoring the content of their communication.  As we talked, they quickly realized their assumption of my wrong doing was in error and that they themselves had done something totally out of character as it related to the love and respect we had for one another.   They asked me for forgiveness. I replied it was not necessary to ask for that which was not needed in the first place, and added that through the love we share forgiveness is simply part of the relationship.

When we love, we forgive.  When we place ourselves first, above those we love, we will find forgiveness a more difficult process. When we let our emotions take control of our thoughts, when we let the actions of others dictate how we live our lives, we lose!  We lose the ability to show our true love for others. We lose our ability to show compassion for the pain others are experiencing.  We lose our state of peace and happiness. And as a Christian we lose our connection with God.  During these times when we become angry, defensive, jealous, resentful and even vindictive… these are the times when our communications and feelings of peace with our God, our inner self or spirituality, becomes weak.

When we forgive we are experiencing the highest form of love there is. And as a result we then experience an incredible state of peace and happiness.

As a follow up to my article on 11.11.11, this message seems to be very much on target. The past is the past, we must forgive all those that have hurt us in the past, forgive those that have sinned against us, thereby allowing us to move forward in life with: no baggage, no anger, nor resentment towards others… especially those we called close friends and those we shared our love with.

My comments here should certainly not be taken as an excuse to stay in an abusive relationship.  Forgiveness is necessary there to, yet continued abuse by someone in your life, whether physical or emotional, should never be considered an acceptable way to live. The forgiveness in these situations is truly a healing form of forgiveness which allows you to move on in life and be able to experience, in a positive way, loving relationships with others.

As we all know, in life there is an opposite for everything.  The opposite of light is darkness. The opposite of good is evil.  The opposite of love is hate.  In the case of forgiveness it is judgment.  When we fail to forgive we are simply placing our judgment upon another.  If you are a spiritual person, as I, you may find this scripture  of interest. Luke 6:37

If nothing else, remember this… “Abundance in your life is achieve through the ongoing process of forgiveness in your life and the existence of  love within your heart. You can not have one without the other!”  – Wayne Warrington

 

 

 

 

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Faith, Hope and Love Forever More!

Posted on November 11, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

If I were to speak in tongues would you understand the message? Clearly not!

Since that is not my Gift  in life anyway, I shall attempt to convey this message by that which I have been gifted.  The Gift of Faith!

There are so many choices we have in life.  And our choices are available to us moment by moment.  This is truly a beautiful thing.  Since it basically means we can: choose to love, choose to forgive, choose to comfort, choose to show compassion, choose to exhibit our faith, choose to have hope for this life and for the life of eternity that has been promised to us.

For me, I choose LOVE!  I choose from this day forward to walk by faith, let my life be an example of that which I believe and to serve others as God intended me to do.   Humanity is a word we use so lightly at times and without thought for the part we play in it. Everyday, moment by moment, we are given the opportunity “the gift” to choose how we interact with others.  From my personal experience I can honestly say to you, that the pebble you drop in the still pond of life can and will create a ripple affect that is felt by others near and far.  The kind words you share with a stranger, the compassion you show to others in despair, can and will change humanity forever.  This is the part you play. How you choose to live each day.

What shall I do today “November 11th, 2011″ that reflects my Faith in God, my Hope for humanity and my love for His children.   It is a choice, my choice, and I am grateful for the blessing of choice and free will.

11.11.11 represents to me simply a day of change, a day of choice and a day in which I can demonstrate my love and compassion for those around me, for my family and friends.

What will you choose to do today?  What will you choose to do today?

1 Corinthians 13

If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.  If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

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A Leap of Faith

Posted on November 7, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

AFFIRMATION:

I KNOW ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE TO THOSE THAT BELIEVE THEM. I believe in myself and my ability to achieve great things. I combine my belief, my faith, my courage, my confidence and my prayers to accomplish heroic goals for the benefit of many people.

Days 6 & 7 – for my mastermind session represented a weekend at home organizing, writing and planning.   One of the most critical areas of our lives is communications and we have simply placed ourselves in a state of overwhelm with all the various levels of communication.   Social Media, Cell Phones, Text Messages, E-mails, and so on.  Take a step back and USE today’s technology for your benefit, not the benefit of others that have discovered a free way to capture your attention in order to sell you something. :-)

So, two great days of organizing, believing in myself and stepping outside of the box I had placed myself in recently due to the overwhelm in communications.  My mission in life has three areas that all tie together.  First and foremost is to help consumers recover their portion of the $1 trillion dollars in unclaimed property in the USA.  This to me is so important and such a huge task, yet I know it can be done.  Secondly is by paying it forward with  millions of consumers, I ask them to do the same by donating 10% to worthwhile charities and humanitarian efforts.  This process can be the catalyst for making positive change around the world.  And finally… the creation of an Ad Free, Spam Free, Consumer Friendly & Safe Internet experience.   All of this takes that Leap of Faith as shown above.  As we enter this new period in time where life seems to be renewing itself, where millions of people around the world are feeling the calling to share their love, compassion and knowledge with others, I make this Leap of Faith to accomplish my mission.

NARRATION:

From the book Affirmations of Wealth I discovered the following insights by its author V. John Alexandrov. “I believe.” These are two very powerful words. When I affirm these words, I have no doubt in my abilities or in my mission in life. I believe in every word I write and in every action I take; I believe in my God-given mission and pupose in life. Whatever I believe, I will achieve, so long as I apply my faith and couple my courage and confidence with action. When I set out to accomplish any goal or to fulfill a heroic intent, I unequivocally believe that I will do so.  I will not allow myself to think, say or do anything that would diminish my belief. I promote my belief through daily affirmations, the visualization of my success and by clearly defined written goals, which distinctly define the benefit to myself and to others.

WISDOM FOR TODAY:

I know I can achieve whatever I believe. I will write out my beliefs clearly in the form of affirmations. I will read my affirmations and visualizations with clearly defined written goals. When I do so, I know there is no objective I will not realize.

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Living In The Present

Posted on November 6, 2011 by Wayne Warrington

I LOOK AHEAD. I PLAY DOWN THE FIELD. Although I live in the present moment and I delight in every day, I have a perfect understanding of where I want and need to be tomorrow. I make the most of every day, and I know I will make the most of tomorrow as well.

Welcome to Day 5 of my MasterMind Session.   I believe one of the most common questions I hear from people is… “How do you stay so positive all the time?”  The answer for me is being so grateful for the individual moments I am given “gifted” and that fact I have the free will to choose how I spend them.  Now don’t get me wrong, I certainly have had my share of moments that I did not use as wisely as I could have.  However, as I entered this 5th day of my mastermind session, and I was so fortunate to be able to share some incredibly inspiring moments with several new friends, I wondered to myself… just how many moments do we actually get in this life.  So, I did a little research and broke out the calculator and discovered that the average person in America has 21 million moments within their adult lifetime where they get to choose the direction, the attitude, the impact of their lives from that moment on.

The adult life is gifted with 21 million moments. How do you choose to spend yours?

As for me… and I guess this is where I figure we all should choose wisely… because I personally have used up over 12 million of my moments and I think I would really like to use the rest I have coming to me in the most positive, productive, compassionate and loving way I possibly can… every day… moment by moment!

NARRATION:

There is a delicate balance between living a rich and full day today while planning for tomorrow. Many times we get so caught up in what we need to do today that we fail to plan for tomorrow. Conversely, many times, we look so much to the future that we do not appreciate today. How do we strike a harmonious balance between these two need? One effective way is to properly organize, prioritize and plan our time and activities. When you properly plan, without fail you will have enough time to truly enjoy today. Good organizational skills allow you to “play down the field.” This means you can plan today for the obstacles you may encounter in the future or, even better, you can create your own circumstances of the future.  Another method used by my mentor and mastermind partner John Alexandrov in keeping this level of balance is “dreaming”.  as John stated within his book, he keeps a current dream list in his planner at all times.  Writing down his dreams, and then visualizing them as reality, which motivates him to realize his dreams in the future while enjoying them today.   One of John’s favortie quotes that has help him is… “Live for today. Plan for tomorrow.”

I certainly believe John’s process can and will work for most everyone. As for my personal process of staying in balance, I created a little 10 question survey that allows me to see exactly where I am at, at all times, based upon my gut feeling of where I am in relation to these ten areas of life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you would like to know where YOU ARE as to balance in your life… just CLICK HERE and take the free survey.  You can even email it to yourself when you are done.

WISDOM FOR TODAY:

I will plan and organize myself. I will live for today and plan for tomorrow.


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